As well as being the daughter of the very forgetful Goldfish, Mary Smith is a writer of both prose and poetry and a freelance journalist.
She is currently caring for her father who has severe dementia and trying not to mind not being able to write. This blog is a way to keep her writing muscles from atrophying completely and a way of reaching out to others in a similar situation.
She spent many years working on health projects in Pakistan and Afghanistan; experiences which have influenced her writing. Drunk Chickens and Burnt Macaroni: Real Stories of Afghan Women is an account of some of her years working on a women’s health project in Afghanistan and No More Mulberries is a novel set in Afghanistan. Both are available as paperback or for Kindle.
Thousands Pass Here Every Day (Indigo Dreams) is her first full-length poetry collection.
More information about Mary Smith can be found on her website at www.marysmith.co.uk
Great idea, Mary. Sensitive and not without humour: as good a way to manage a difficult situation as might be found. d x
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Thanks, Damian. I hope you will follow me on this journey into the world of dementia. I do try to find the humour, though it’s sometimes well hidden.
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Hi, I have nominated you to receive a Very Inspiring Blogger Award. Please check it out here: – http://frangipanisingaporenicum.wordpress.com/2014/08/08/passing-it-on/
Thank you for sharing your caregiving journey.
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Thank you. Nothing happens when I click on the link – but thank you anyway. I appreciate the nomination.
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Hi, Mary, I’ve nominated you for the Very Inspiring Blogger Award. Check out my post when you have a chance: http://suburbanhobo.com/2015/01/02/very-inspiring-blogger-award/
Happy New Year!
Erica
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Thank you, Erica. It’s very good of you to nominate me. I already have this inspiring blogger award so don’t really know what to do, especially as the other bloggers I follow also have it! I like your post and will take a look at your blog, whcih looks interesting – and, of course, inspiring.
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You’re welcome, Mary. Thanks.
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HI
Thank you so much for finding my blog and liking one of the posts
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You are welcome. I’ll visit again – hope you might enjoy my Goldfish blog, too.
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You are very good to do this for your dad and put your life on hold.
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Thanks, Eric. It was tough at times but I don’t regret it.
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Your blog is a great idea, Mary. It may help you cope, but I’m sure it will help so many others in your situation. Keep posting 🙂
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Thank you so much for dropping by and commenting.
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You’re welcome, Mary. You have a very nice style of writing
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Mary, I don’t know how I missed your blog here but found it from your Amazon page! Woo hoo! Glad I found you here. ❤
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Thanks, Colleen, I’m glad you found me here, too! 🙂 And seeing your comment has made me realise I’m late (again) at putting up a new post.
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LOL! I will try and check in more regularly! 😀
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Hi Mary. Thanks for reading my blog, I also find yours very interesting. It’s hard to write about such things…
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Thanks for taking a look. It is hard to write about these things but there are positives about it, too.
I really enjoyed your blog post about Cret – have shared it with my sister who is going to Crete on holiday soon. Lucky thing 🙂
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In my last few years at work, I spent much time visiting patients (for research) with early onset dementias in their own homes. I have seen first-hand how spouses and other carers travel a complex and often soul-destroying path between the needs of the people they look after and the often Byzantine complexities of the system. My sympathies about the writing hiatus. I, too, had a few years with very little writing time while caring for our parents/parent-in-law. I have found blogging a great way to keep that muscle active. I have just bought `No More Mulberries’ for my iPad. I wish I could say I will be reading it soon, but it has joined something of a queue.
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Thanks for dropping by, Hilary. Your research sounds fascinating.’Byzantine complexities’ is the perfect description for the system!
I expected my writing would have to take a backseat when I moved in with dad and, like you, I turned to blogging as a way to ensure I did manage some writing. I thought after dad died I would get back to it but it has taken much longer than I expected, though I’m making progress now.
Thanks for buying No More Mulberries and I hope when it finally reaches the top of the queue you enjoy it. My tbr pile threatens to engulf me! Just as well it is mostly a virtual pile.
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I found you through Nutsrok only to discover we had crossed paths before. I too have been through the journey of dementia with both parents and various others. My deepest condolences on your loss. Life returns to a more normal balance eventually, until something else occurs to put it out of kilter 🙂 I wish you well
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Yes, I think we met through Sally’s blog? Thanks so much for dropping by. I think more and more people are going to be on that dementia journey and sharing the process on a blog can be helpful. Thanks for your good wishes.
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We did. I was on one of Sally’s Creative Artist Interviews
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Thank you, Hugh. See you on Saturday.
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Cheers to your commitment!
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Thank you.
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Where is the world are you located?
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Dumfries & Galloway in South west Scotland – lots of beautiful coastline 🙂
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Wonderful! … thank you.
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You have a very interesting blog. I look forward to reading more.
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Thank you so much. I hope you find the posts interesting. I haven’t updated this blog for a while as I’m trying to re-work the material into a book.
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